Hi
I ask that you please pray for my marriage. I have been married 11 years and truthfully it has been so hurtful to me. I am always taking care of my husband and he is always making promises to take care of me and our home but never keeps his word. He does very little for me or or our children unless I ask a million times. I have cried since mother’s day when he again, knowing he promised not to hurt me, took the easy way out, and he has continued to promise to mend our marrige but has done nothing to do so. We have gone through this over the 11 years and I feel like I am beaten down to the ground. He always tells me he will do it just to give him a chance and trust him and I have done so but dont have it in me anymore. He is breaking my heart and my childrens also and tearing up our family. I do not feel love from him. How does someone love his wife and do the same thing that hurt over and over again to her. I do not want to get a divorce because I do not believe that is the answer, but I also do not want to grow old with someone that can not see his errors and makes me feel so bad. One day my children will be grown and I will be left with this situation if it is not mended and I dread it so much that just that though makes me cry. Please pray for our family, and my marriage. Please also pray that our finances will completely turn around for the good so that I can not worry about it ALL of the time. Thank you and God Bless you!